Tuesday, June 9, 2009

I can teach YOU to shop smart!

The receipt you are looking at is Toby and I's last shopping bill for this month. Some of you may think it's quite odd to blog about grocery shopping, but let me tell you... I can save you so much money if you just follow a few tips!

Okay so when you look at the amount we spent you might be set off a bit and think, "I don't even spend that much!" The trick to our shopping is, yes, though we spent over 100$, you would not believe how long we can stretch it! So instead of having to shop every week, we wait for the deals and the "right" coupons. I DO NOT take full credit for the methods I use, as I have been "influenced" by Dave Ramsey and "The Grocery Game".

BUY IN BULK and
BUY ON SALE!!!


The important thing to remember is this took a little time to "bulk" up on things, so that is why we were able to spend a chunked amount like this! Once you get yourself to the point of having enough, then you can spend your budget on things you need (such as eggs and milk etc.). Because the truth is Toby and I HONESTLY do not need this much food at once. But you would be utterly amazed at how nice it is to have what you need and know you got it for cheap! Plus Wal-mart always has great deals on H&B products (and there are even coupons for those things too!)

Okay so the grocery bill from Wal-mart says we initially spent 150.00$. After, no longer than an hour of clipping coupons (from the Sunday newspaper and The Grocery Game) I was able to save us over forty dollars JUST IN COUPONS! If you know Wal-mart well then you know that is an accomplishment, because their prices are already so cheap. However, Toby and I hate buying produce at Wal-mart because it always goes bad on us... so we look to King Soopers and Safeway for deals. Safeway is infamous for deals on paper products. So we wait for their deals to come around and we really stock up (as you can tell from the pictures below). King Soopers (or Kroger) also always have GREAT deals on fresh fruit and veggies!

MY TIPS:
  1. Actually watch the weeks adds and circle what you could use.
  2. Save every coupon you can, even if you think you may not use it down the road. I ended up switching from a "professional" shampoo/conditioner to WHATEVER is on sale and I have a coupon for.
  3. While you are watching the adds, pull the saved coupons for ONLY the items that are on sale. (HINT!!! Wal-mart matches typical grocery adds)
  4. Make a list - do not count on just "shopping" - and stick to the list!
  5. If you find a deal, bulk up! (For instance: Safeway typically does a deal on a 24 pack of Charmin TP for 9.99 if you buy two packs. You CAN NOT buy good TP at Wal-mart for cheaper than that!)
  6. Don't be afraid to have "extras" right now... it WILL save you down the road. (Toby and I have FIVE Mayos in our cabinet because we buy when its on sale and end up getting it free after the coupons!)
  7. Don't be afraid to make trips to mulitple stores. If the stores are close by you can do the running around (NOTE: Wal-mart does not match manufactors deals, for instance, if Safeway is giving away free 24pack of water if you buy two 12 packs of soda, Wal-mart WILL NOT match it!)
  8. DO NOT pay for coupons! The Grocery Game is a paid membership, BUT you can download the coupons for free, and you can keep going back to get more! Plus what they teach you through your membership on The Grocery Game I am teaching you here!
  9. Stock up on BOGO Deals!
Because Toby and I have faithfully been following this plan, we have been able to save more money for occasions when we eat out (which is usually at least once a week). Our budget is 70$ a week on groceries/food/H&B products/dog food etc. We hardly ever go over because of the system we use. I know 70$ a week is alot, but I promise you, you can do this on much less a week even! We save on Dog Food, shavers, toothpaste, food, YOU NAME IT! YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO Play the Game. And hey, once you figure it out, its amazing how natural it becomes.

Check out our cabinets, we are going to be able to save so much more money for the baby!




Thursday, June 4, 2009

Friends make life better...

Toby, Autumn-Rose, Mike, and Jenny
N.E.W. Zoo in Greenbay, WI

(If anyone knows why my pictures are coming in soooooo blurry will you comment?)



Autumn-Rose and Mikey
(Best Friends Forever)
Comparing Bellies... Mike's is definitely bigger!



Mikey and Autumn-Rose
Check out those stretch marks!
(If you can't see them click on the pic to enlarge it!)



Jenny, Mikey, Autumn-Rose and Toby
Miniature Golf Course, Greenbay, WI



True Love!!!


Sebastian (Bash), Jenny, Mikey, Gracey, Autumn-Rose, and Toby
Sad to Leave :(

Toby and I recently took a mini-vacation (the last one of it's kind - that is without a baby tagging along!). We drove for 20 hours (non-stop) up to Greenbay, WI to visit my best friend for many years, Mike. Upon our visit we found out that he had asked his girlfriend, Jenny to marry him! We were so excited to celebrate such an occasion with them. They asked us to be in their wedding which is such an honor!

Mike will our baby girl's God-Father. This is quite the honor as choosing a God parents can be complicated. While he is so much of brother to me, he will make not only a GREAT God parent, but a marvelous uncle.

We are sad that Mike and Jenny live so far away from us! We wish they were closer because they truly are our closest friends. We enjoy playing hours of board games! Cranium, especially! However, the most exciting of our trip to Wisconsin was Mike and I comparing our bellies! I could not believe Mike had stretch marks, what a HOOT! Who do you think is bigger, me or him? Careful!

Friends have the power to bring ones soul such joy. Without friends I think we would be totally incomplete. We are so blessed to have friends to share life with. We can't wait to welcome such joyful friendships into our baby girl's life.

Stay tuned... more about this trip to come...

Monday, May 18, 2009

Decorating is a BLAST!


So this is the semi-finished product of "Mommy's Project!" I am loving this whole decorating thing! This weekend mom came over for an "us" day and we decided to spoil the baby by giving her a room that is BEAUTIFUL as her. I think it is so much fun to paint. Can't wait to finish.

Still left to do:
  • Buy window shades
  • Finish crib setup
  • Buy wall decoration
  • Fill dresser Drawers
  • Wait for bookshelves (when will they get here?)
  • Put baby in CRIB! YEAH!





BEFORE: Excuse the mess (We just put crib and dresser together)




Mommy was a GREAT painting partner...




What is she doing to poor Toby!?




Toby had to touch places up!




But he was so happy to do so!




I was finishing up the wall outlets while Toby worked on curtains.




What do you think?


BOTTOM LINE: It's purple and that's all that matters. We have much to still do, but ah' the joy I have resorting to the baby's room. Toby asked me last night, "You gunna make it yours?" LOL. I just might have to! LOL.

STAY TUNED... more to come...

BTW - if you're interested Toby and I are registered at Baby's R' US and Target. Click the link to go directly to our registries!

Friday, May 8, 2009

In Honor of Mother's Day...


I dedicate this blog to mommy...




My Mommy -
she is my best friend
she knows me better than anyone
she will always have a special place in my heart
she completes me in more ways than one could imagine


Mommy has taught me everything I need to know about to be a mother! If I know what it is like to be a mom, it is because she has taught me how. I love her unconditionally. I can not wait to have her by my side to welcome me into motherhood!!!


MARVEL - here is a shout out to you... Toby and I are wishing you a VERY HAPPY MOTHER'S Day and even better a VERY VERY VERY HAPPY (You know what) BIRTHDAY!

Additionally... many mother's have touched our hearts... in inexpressive ways... we want to thank you all... Do I need to name names? You know who you are! And we hope this day is all about you!

And to leave on a bang, we have a VERY special story to share with you. This story is special because we share something that happened this week which relates to "motherhood!" ENJOY


On Wednesday afternoon, Autumn (me) spent the afternoon in the presence of the most loving mom I know. We were on our way out the door to enjoy a great dinner (PIZZA!), when I was caught off guard by my belly (this happens often). I went to search this feeling with my hand (again as I often do) to find our baby girl's heart just beating away. Okay, so this is not the type of beating you feel in a pulse. This was actually her heart I felt! OH MY GOSH! So I said, "Mom come here, you have to feel this! I feel her heart!" She melted just as I did. We both had our hands there feeling this pulsing miracle continue to beat. She must have had her heart pushed up against my belly (their skin is so thin - they have few muscles yet).

When I got home, I was so excited to find her heart again so that Toby could enjoy this miracle taking place as well. There is nothing like it! There are no words to describe the joy that fulfilled me in those moments. I am truly amazed at God and his miracle of creating this baby inside me. WOW!

BTW - if you missed it... the comment links are now working... Please let us know what you think about the new layout!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!